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Showing posts with label Confidence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Confidence. Show all posts

Monday, July 2, 2012

Epic North American Poem



When my last day on earth arrives
I’ll kiss the sun and make it rise
I’ll Drink the Ocean and Paint the skies
I’ll think emotion and feel wise
Used to life but meet demise
I’ll never have to say goodbye
You’ll never hurt and never cry
Your heart disappeared your tears are dry
Don’t slouch or frown or even sigh
Just understand and listen why
The soul I have just isn’t my
It’s yours and thiers and every I           
Spirits soaring flying high
Worth more than you could ever buy
Don’t waste your life forever thrive
Grow every day you stay alive
How many years you may survive
On terms of yours that you decide
Feelings you know but can’t describe
In you I live on and we’ll never die
Its you and us and every I
The soul is we remember me

Monday, April 16, 2012

Wear What You Wore

I had a speech teacher in college who told the class a story about how she attended a party wearing a very short skirt. This skirt was much shorter than what she normally wore. When she got to the party she felt awkward and self conscious about it. She kept tugging at the skirt the whole night and let it ruin her attitude. She said that afterward she decided to never feel that way again. She came up with a rule called "Wear What You Wore" meaning whatever your wear to an event must be embraced and not hidden. This was a great lesson to learn. I have found that when I wear things with authority (backpacks in bars, black eyes, work uniforms, etc.) it usually elicits more conversations and attention from strangers. its like they want to know why you are doing this one random thing that no one else is doing. "Why do you have that backpack?' Everyone always wants to know. "Whats the story with that outfit?" It works like a charm. Who would have thought that such a simple concept could break so much ice. In fact sometimes I go out intentionally wearing ridiculous stuff just to see what happens. Not everything you learn in school is on the syllabus.Thanks for the lesson Teach. 

Dale Fanella